The author reflects on meaningful encounters and shares anecdotes on discussing the pandemic, educational stress, impatience, and existential questions, with insightful conclusions.
Little big things
Category: Soul
A Mourning Call
A Japanese woman, Kikue Hirano, visits an unconventional phone booth surrounded by flowers. It was built by Itaru Sasaki in 2010 to connect with his deceased cousin. After a tsunami in 2011, it became a pilgrimage site for people to talk to their lost loved ones.
Turning Twenty-Nine!
The writer reflects on unmet goals as she approaches 30, emphasizing life's unexpected turns. She shares 29 impactful life lessons, highlighting self-care, love, patience, and growth. The post encourages self-compassion and gratitude.
By the Lake Constance!
The author reflects on a serene moment by a lake, troubled by thoughts of stagnation. An encounter with a stranger brings unexpected peace. The vast lake, mountains, and the fleeting hot air balloon inspire a shift in perspective, revealing the beauty of living in the moment.
What has changed?
The author reflects on their unchanged external life but a growing sense of alienation and internal change. They express concern about the lack of genuine communication and understanding among people, and the pervasive background noise that blurs important matters. The piece ends with a contemplation on finding one's place in the world.
Impact of Childhood Memories
The author recalls a childhood incident where they feared severe consequences for accidentally hurting a girl while riding a bicycle. The girl's mother's compassionate response taught the author the futility of overthinking and shaped their calm demeanor, reflecting on the impact of childhood experiences on personality development.
The one from my heart
The author shares a poignant connection with Lily, a fragile kitten who left a lasting impact before passing away. Despite only knowing Lily for 4 days, the intense bond and grief are palpable. The author yearns for closure and expresses deep love for Lily, accepting her brief yet meaningful journey.
How pursuing a Ph.D. changes your life
The Ph.D. journey encompasses diverse experiences, yet imparts universal skills. Choosing hard work, embracing failure, meticulous planning, and cultivating patience are pivotal. These qualities, acquired through the arduous journey, persist beyond academia, shaping a person's character and resilience in all aspects of life.
To Chase or Not To Chase
The pursuit of specific goals often leads to frustration and disappointment. Instead of relentlessly chasing after one thing, consider going with the flow and exploring alternative paths. By releasing the urge to control every aspect, you may discover unexpected opportunities and appreciate the present.
Leap of Faith
The concept of taking a "leap of faith" involves acting based on belief rather than evidence. Despite the fear associated with it, stories of people following their intuition and making impulsive decisions have often led to positive outcomes, highlighting the value of taking risks for growth and fulfillment.
Samay and Solace 